Friday, November 30, 2012

Mysore - in 2 days

Mysore, the city of palaces and gardens. I actually spent 4 days there, but the weekend was my favorite. It started with meeting Sayed, the magician. Find him when you're in Mysore. If you're lucky you'll find him outside the lobby of the hotel Regaalis, and if not then ask the doorman for him. Sayed is a traditional magician, and comes from a family where each generation teaches the next magic.

The Mysore zoo had been strongly recommended to me, and so on Saturday I dragged a friend of mine, who unbelieveably had stayed there for an year without visiting the zoo. It's a big big place, and I had the time of my life. I loved the monkeys and apes (as always), and saw an otter in real life for the first time! :)

The second day is what I'd love to rattle on about. We headed to Coorg in a superb Inova. But better than the town of Coorg is what's on the way. My favorite was the "Golden temple", which is actually the Buddhist Nyingmapa Monastery. This place is a perfect example of don't judge a book by it's cover. A modest entrance, leads to a magnificent steeple, which had my mouth dropping open literally. But that was still nothing. An unassuming doorway with a curtain of beads opens into a huge room where there is a celebration of colours and peace. Whoever would have imagined that red could be peaceful? The tall statues, the paintings and the monks with their calm voices and prayers which commanded attention. I could have sat there for the entire day and maybe a couple of more. The gift shop there is the best! It's full of little trinkets like good luck charms, fans and even tea sets (I bought a cute little green one), all at very very low rates.

After the temple, which I reluctantly left we went on to Cauveri Nisargadham.This was a very typical touristy spot, with the main attractions being the deer park and elephant rides.
The deer were friendly and eating cucumbers right out of the hands of tourists. The mahouts were pretty mean and constantly hitting the elephant on the head with a stick, so that made my first elephant ride not so enjoyable. But the best part for me was the hanging bridge over the Cauveri river, which had a great view, which was also spoiled thanks to too many people chattering.

The Akki falls did not really impress, but maybe that was because you could hardly hear the water over voices. However the "churmuri" a simple snack consisting of puffed rice, tomatoes, onions, coriander and spices is a must try! Lunch in Madikeri also recommended.





However what I'd love to do is go back to the monastery and sit and sketch every single picture there. I guess a year's sabbatical would be enough for that!

Saturday, November 3, 2012

Random acts of kindness

Inspired by recent acts of kindness by strangers, I have decided to start a bi-monthly column just for this.
However, the success of this column depends on you, my readers. This is going to be an open column, featuring mostly
(I hope) readers' works. So readers, please feel free to write in your experiences to me at ritealot@gmail.com.

Here's mine to start off with.

One balmy afternoon, a friend, my mother and I started off towards the railway station. My friend was lugging
an enormous bag, which he stubbornly refused to let either of us help him with. After much persuasion, he agreed
to share the load and we each carried one strap of the bag.

All this while we were looking out for rickshaws, and as luck would have it there were none. We started up the road,
a winding one, slightly uphill. A rickshaw came around a bend, and I flagged it, but it was occupied. Surprisingly it
stopped in front of us. A lady got out, holding a toddler close to her.
With a friendly smile she said some of the kindest words I had heard for a while, "Take the auto, my house is right here. I can
walk."

To this day we owe the lady, not just for giving us the auto, but for making out day by this selfless gesture.

So readers, pay silent tributes to strangers, family, friends and maybe yourselves. Write in to me at ritealot@gmail.com...

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Chem...again?

One term of a new syllabus was more than enough. I requested that I be allowed to change back to my regular curriculum. With a lot of pomp and splendour (which can be translated as arguments) this was allowed.

Today seemed to be the first day of school all over again. The bafflement, the confusion, the urge to run back home and snuggle down in a soft bed, all the symptoms of a first day were back clearer than ever. Unfortunately today was worse. Yet again, how neglected brilliant subjects are hit me. Hard.  Economics and Biology run parallel so I have to choose between the two and and also take up a third subject since I cannot do both. Telling me this while your eyes are shooting daggers at me was not enough. *You had to make it worse by telling me to take Chemistry as the teacher is qualified yet again. And the worst is that you have done something I believe no teacher should. I now doubt myself and anxiously go through all websites to confirm what I have decided is right. You made me doubt myself. What I've been working towards since probably second grade now seems irrelevant.

Chemistry. Sure I'll do Chem, so you'll get off my back. Do you want that? Because I'll be the only one blamed in the long run if something goes wrong. You'll take the credit, if out of the blue, I realise how wonderful Chemistry is and decide to go win a Nobel Prize.

"Don't do it because you like it," you caution me. Have you taken any effort to find out where I'm going? You feel I want to do Economics because I have a friend doing that subject. Wrong. And as for taking subjects out of the thin air, you have no idea how detailed my study plan is. For the simple reason, you never bothered to find out.

Realise that you're ruining not just my life, but maybe others too. Chemistry I will not do. Nor Math. Not any subject you suggest do I feel like doing now. But know this.
I'm going to study and get into the college of my dreams. And when you go around, feeling that you led to my success, I'll be thanking myself for not listening to you.

*Refer to the article "Can I please study to learn?"

Saturday, July 28, 2012

Silent Scream

Listen to me closely
For I cannot speak
As loudly and clearly as you wish me to be
I'm quiet and you wonder why
You believe me not
When I say
I know not what to say

I know not how to say


Hear me when I

Speak with my eyes
Hear me when I
Sob silently in the darkness
Hear me when I
Smile at you
Hear me when I
Bury myself in your warm embrace

But mostly I wish 
You would hear me when
No other does
When by the light
Of the moon
I let forth,a
Silent scream

Thursday, July 5, 2012

Can I please study to learn?

So here I am, posting something exactly two months after my last blog post. In this time my exams have been written, (math went quite well, thank you), i have shifted to a new house, and my summer has come to an end. This weekend is the last of freedom.

Yesterday I visited my school to figure out what subjects to take next year. To my undisguised horror, both history and economics, previously offered subjects were no longer available. I have to do 6 subjects, and two I really need are not there. Great. "What to I do now?" I asked my counsellor. "Why don't you take chemistry? It's easy and the kids seem to like it..." was the answer.

Excuse me? Did you just tell me to take chemistry because it's easy? Slow down. When did this start happening?? I didn't know that I was eligible to take a subject because it's easy! Oh, why don't I just take English because it's easy! Seriously, what is the world coming to! I came back home and talked this out with my friends, and they told me this was a similar case in their colleges too. Students being encouraged to take easy subjects so that their marks are great. Because at the end of the day marks are what matter. In this respect, my counsellor was only trying to help.

Should it really be like this? I get terrible marks in physics, but I'm just as interested in the Higgs boson particle as the girl doing research on nano particles. But hey, no marks=you don't know anything in that subject!

I find the education system terrible! I keep thinking about dropping out of school (Bill Gates and Sachin Tendulkar being my role models to do so). But then two things stopped me from thinking this way. One was my mom and my best friend telling me, "Sachin plays cricket, Gates built a multimillion empire. What can you do?' Right now, I have no clue. So that's one option out. The other is something my mom always says. I'm a big fan of Sir Ken Robinson and his ideas. Using this great example my mom tells me, "The only reason people listen to him is because he's been through the system, and he knows what he's talking about."

So there! I have to go through "education". But then it's up to me to make the change. I know that I want to inspire people to stop treating subjects as just a means to get marks. And I'm going to do something about it. Right now, I'm going to study. However there is only so much I can do alone. The only way to get this moving is if everyone I know, tells everyone they know. Therefore this post. Start thinking about it people, because change is inevitable. But, we can be the ones bringing about that change.

Sunday, May 6, 2012

The countdown ends...

On Tuesday I give my exam. I have decided to end the countdown today, as tomorrow will be spent swotting.

I discovered today that I have used up 2 and a half notebooks just in these past 15 days. I still lack confidence, but at least I now know the basics (much to the relief of many people).
I'm not scared anymore. I can face math now, boldly. Heck, I can even face my math teacher and proudly tell him what he could not do in 2 years, my family, friends and I did in a fortnight. I'm ready for my exam. I will not be finishing early this time because I do not know anything, but maybe because I knew everything. Now, I know I can do it.

I have already thanked my support group like I fondly refer to them, and now I would like to thank all of you. The whole purpose of this countdown was that I would do math everyday so that I would have something to share with you guys, which forced me into doing math everyday. Somewhere along the road, there came a point where I stopped doing it just to put in on the blog. Knowing that so many people were there for me, rooting for me made me want to learn. It made me want to work. It made me want to score great marks. The blog and more importantly it's readers made this possible.

I'll be posting soon after my exam and I'll let you all know how it went. Stick around because I have some pretty interesting articles lined up. We have a guest writer with an article about a journey in Assam, and then one of mine featuring Kochi which is heralded as the Queen of the Arabian.

Thank you all for sticking with me and the blog through these 15 days, which have been filled with tears, laughter, frustration, joy, and lots and lots of learning.

Friday, May 4, 2012

3 days to become a math genius

3 days to go. And I have learnt more in these past few days than I did in two years. Life's real funny isn't it? :)

On Tuesday, I'll be giving my first math exam. I have another one later this month. At the beginning of my study leave I was scared. You can say about as scared as my neighbour is when she sees lizards. I had no clue what was going on, and numbers, and signs would just swim on the pages rather than making sense. Thanks to an amazing group of people, which consists of my mom and some really great friends, it makes sense now. I'm not perfect at math. But I'm not scared anymore.

I did some 5 and a half papers today. Most of them were easy. Some were tough. A few days days ago I would have probably said "most were tough, some were easy." I smile now when I solve problems not look at them through a haze of frustrated tears, or with eyes burning with exhaustion and hate. We're not the best of friends. But it's like my mom says. When you have to work with someone, you have to work with them. If you don't like them don't spend the evening with them. Math and I are kind of like that. I need to work with it, so I'm working with it. But unlike French, I am not doing it because I have fun with it.

Waiting for tomorrow...

Thursday, May 3, 2012

5 and 4 days to become a math genius

The exam draws nearer, I become fearer (don't worry, I'm just messing around). It's been a good two days, where math is concerned. I solved 46 problems in less than an hour today I'm not going to tell you that they were really easy and spoil my image), I'm getting the hang of almost everything, and the best part is while going through my exam papers I found a lot of places where the examiner had not given me marks when I have actually gotten the answer right. Muhahaha math you know I'm going to beat you, sucker!!!

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

7 and 6 days to become a math genius

Sorry, but I have to post these two together. There has been a steady improvement! I'm doing papers on my own, no more nervous breakdowns, and I can actually understand stuff. Thanks to Sheldon Cooper and The Big Bang Theory, I'm not going to forget Venn diagrams anytime soon. But no one I know understands bearings. This was how my Mom summed it up today- "I don't get bearings, our neighbour doesn't get bearings and he's smart, your best friend isn't scoring well, but we know he's smart, your dad is definitely smart, and only two people in your class understand it." In other words I'm in big trouble!!
Oh well, apart from that, everything else is pretty cool!
I'm almost confident...almost.
Let's see what tomorrow brings :)

Sunday, April 29, 2012

8 days to become a math genius

I did a paper today!! And apart from construction and bearing I pretty much got everything else right. Getting somewhere? I hope so. It was a disappointing afternoon, but a productive evening. Walking randomly in the cool evening air helps clear one's mind, especially when one has to do more math afterward. :P

Saturday, April 28, 2012

9 days to become a math genius

My laptop is now officially kaput.
Back to math. It is seriously getting on my nerves. Remember what I said about getting better at it? It isn't happening anymore. I'm back to square one and even more frustrated than ever. It's the point where I have myself convinced that math is stupid, I'm stupider, math is useless and since I'm not going to get it right anyway, now would be the best time to give it all up.

And I have only 8 days to get it all together. *Gulp*

10 days to become a math genius

Again, I'm sorry I couldn't post yesterday. But you know what?? I did a whole question paper on my own, couldn't figure out one question and made one mistake in the other. Things are certainly looking up! But still not confident, still having problems with geometry and trig, and still trying to figure out what on earth I'm going to do for the exam. *Silent scream*

Friday, April 27, 2012

11 days to become a math genius

I'm so sorry I could not post last night. I kinda lost it. Forget kinda, I did lose it. I was an emotional wreck. I had no clue what to do, I was drawing a blank at everything.

Like my mom says, I have hit the wall. The stage where everything becomes boring and unbearable. God this sucks! I need to get past this mess!! Advice?? Feel free to leave a comment or mail me at ritealot@gmail.com

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

12 days to become a math genius

Phew! I'm glad my brain cannot function anymore...I've been doing math on and off the whole day. Trig is becoming simpler and simpler day by day, and forget passing, scoring good marks seems possible! I still have to get those darned three-dimensional figures right. And loci. God why on earth do we have loci??!

This whole blog idea was a good one (even though I say it myself), because my Mom keeps telling me to take a break from math and I keep saying "NOO! How will I update my blog then?!" :D

The best part of this whole venture is how many people are helping in their own way. My friends teach me, cheer me up, encourage me by telling me that even Einstein failed, and my neighbours study with me and do simple things like lending their calculators which makes a whole lot of difference! :)

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

13 days to become a math genius

My friend came over to teach me today. It was a hilarious disaster. I had gotten the correct answer, but he tells me "No!! You can't do that because you cannot use sine when it's not a right angle triangle." The formula used was to be precise the sine rule. Oh and then we find out that he doesn't know the exact same stuff that I don't. Great isn't it? The ultimate insult would be, according to my mom, finding out that I "know more math than both of them put together". Liking today, waiting for tomorrow :)

Monday, April 23, 2012

14 days to become a math genius

I spent the last one hour doing math. One hour and two old test papers. Bearings can be quite a bit to bear... Of course it involved a lot of help, but I did not lost my cool even once, and actually said "Good ol' Pythagoras theorem!" (I don't believe it either!) What a drastic improvement! This is actually helping...I thought maybe I'd skip math for today and then I remembered that I had to put up a blog post today and so (gulp) I had to do math. But I think I've found one more solution. And that's cursing my math teacher after I solve every problem. My Facebook status today read "Math, I hate you so darned much, I wanna beat the crap outta you by scoring real good marks." I think I'm getting there :)

Saturday, April 21, 2012

15 days to becoming a math genius

Yup, you read that right. I have exactly 15 days to becoming a math genius. Why? Well, I have these life altering exams, and math is first. The whole of this year I've been failing math, and now the pressure is building up. Why am I writing this here? Simple. I need an outlet. Amusement. I've gotten various advice, but everything includes loving math so it loves me back. Now this is kind of like telling a kid to eat the veggies because they're good for health. Neither of us listen.
So what my whack-o plan is that I'll use my blog to write something amusing or crazy that happened while I was learning that day, which I think is a good plan to keep myself from strangling math (though it is not possible, I would give it a try believe me). And maybe it'll give me something to look forward to when I'm studying you know, something like "Lemme study so that I have something to write about!!"

Let's start with today...the 22nd of April. I spent around 2 hours on 15 problems. By the time I reached question number 5 I was frustrated. So when I had to find angle BAD, it was too hilarious to bear. Now it may not seem so funny to you, but hey try being me!!


That's for today! Let's see what tomorrow brings :)

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

An appeal for votes

Make a Difference (MAD) is a volunteer organisation which has young people working amongst orphans and other underprivileged children to provide them with a better quality of education. MAD does this by improving the childrens' communication and computer skills, and their overall personality. Right now, MAD is in a competition and votes are needed to win. Winning will positively affect at least 5000 childrens' lives next year.

All you have to do to vote is pick up your phone and send MHRISE P11 to 54646 or vote online at http://www.sparktherise.com/projectdetail.php?pid=5433

Thank you in advance!!

Thursday, March 29, 2012

Balancing equations creates an inbalance in my life

Here's a chemical poem...enjoy ;)

The sunny day takes on a gloom
Flowers lose their bloom
In the chemistry lab there is a boom

When swirls of H2S our nostrils flay
Out of the lab we try to walk
But we sway

When acids and bases
Neutralise to form water and salt
Most of our experiments come to a halt

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

How Lola led me to Kitty


Lola
Kitty
So today morning my Mom finally convinces me to go shopping with her. After a hot walk we reach the store. And I see this cute dog outside. I couldn't resist and asked the lady with her if I could snap her pic. We spent a few minutes playing with Lola. As we were going inside, the lady told us she had found an abandoned kitten and if we could find her a home. And when I saw her, I was a goner! But I couldnt possibly keep her due to lack of space at my place, and have therefore managed to find her a home after much guilt causing, cajoling, and tugging at heartstrings! :) I have even threatened my friend (who finally agreed) that I would sell his kidney if he sells Kitty! What a day!!

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Khonoma was beautiful...

Hey everyone!! So here comes a post after a really really long time! Hope you enjoy it :)
 
So a few months back, I accompanied my Mom to Nagaland. Kohima to be precise. And after a week of work Mom, and Aunty M were ready to take a break. A friendly guy we met at Calcutta airport (News flash: there are no direct flights to Nagaland. You have to go through Calcutta), had told us about this village called Khonoma ,which was famous because it was an eco village.
  
On Sunday when everyone had a day off, we booked a cab and started off for Khonoma. The plan was to go there in the cab (an Omni), walk around in the village, and come back in the car. A normal day. No craziness involved. But we all forgot something. Where Mom and I are concerned, there is no normalness, and certainly no sanity.

Our car, stuck in a ditch
It’s a twenty kilometre journey. We are 10 kms away from Khonoma. And our car gets stuck in a ditch filled with muddy water. There’s a few cars behind us, and the men get down to help us push our car out. It’s quite a comical site. The men look at us in amusement when we start pushing, but realise that we’re just as strong as them. Yours truly is right behind the back wheel, and when the driver starts the car, I get a taste of the lovely, chocolate brown water.

That problem sorted, we get back in and start off again. Only to stop a little further. We started rolling up our sleeves thinking it was another car stuck in a ditch. But no this was something  even worse. The road had been blocked by a landslide.
 
A spider web 
The unknown
 The men called up the church and asked them to send a vehicle. The group going to church were going to cross the mud covered road to the other side and then go on to the church in the vehicle they would send. We had two choices. Either we sat in a car (like normal people) and went to Khonoma and back, or (like us abnormal people) trek.

My backpack was emptied of everything except two bottles of water, Cola (for the caffeine kick), lunch and my Mom’s purse (what good that was going to do in the wilderness, I still have no clue). I carried my camera, with an extra battery. And of course got some good snaps! We went about 7 kms before deciding to come back.
My once white and blue shoe,after
the trek


The locals start clearing the
landslide after Church
Therefore, in conclusion we actually didn’t get to see Khonoma at all. And the next time you see my Mom and me telling each other “Khonoma was beautiful”, with a cheeky smile, you now know exactly why we’re saying that. ;)